Parents, children and sport
What every parent wants or should want of a child is able to offer a healthy and constructive education; sport offers this type of education, but would choose the wrong strategy for education sports required. The child should have the right to choose not to participate in sport. Of course, encouraging (without blackmail or intimidation) is the most effective strategy.
coaches' job is to provide objective information about the basics of the sport, and when I say I mean objective to avoid the typical situation "Sell the bike," ie, raising expectations too high.
is known that many parents regard their children as an extension of themselves, guiding them to what they had wanted but they could not define what goals should be achieved (goals that they had hoped to achieve), carrying on the backs of their children a responsibility that can interfere seriously in athletic performance.
Parents should recognize the right of every young person has to develop their athletic potential in an atmosphere that emphasizes participation, personal development and fun. What should be
parental responsibilities?
1 - Can parents give their children? This requires putting the boy / a coach completely in charge and trust that lead their sports experience, for it must accept the authority of the coach and the fact that he can win the admiration of the boy, before the father exclusive.
2 - Can parents admit their limitations? Parents should be reassured that the appropriate response to a mistake is an honest declaration. Should not hesitate to discuss the topic openly with your child.
3 - Can parents accept their child's triumphs? That sounds simple, but not always. Some parents do not, but in reality can be more competitive with their sons. When a guy stands in the competition may be a tendency to highlight minor errors or describe how there were others who did better.
4 - Can parents accept their children's frustrations? OK the frustrations of a young witness may mean how to lose a match, while others win, or not display confused, embarrassed or angry when your ten year old son cries after the defeat. In these cases where parents can pour positivity to the defeats.
5 - Can parents show self-control to their children? Parents should be aware that models are for their children. The coach may have difficulty teaching self-control to teach the kids if a parent loses control during a game.
6 - Can parents spend some time with your child? Some parents are so extremely busy that they become a problem as they want and are interested in encouraging their children. They should never promise more time than can be granted. Ideally in such cases is that the father was interested in asking him about the development of training and try to go to some party.
7 - Can parents allow their children to make their own decisions? Sport can be an introduction constitutes the main process of emancipation. You can not mold their children, but rather to provide guidance and advice to the intentions of the boy, always within reasonable limits.
The biggest problems arise during the competition where you can sometimes lose his composure good. Let's see some rules that can help keep such composure
1 - Parents should remain in the spectator areas during the competition, to be seated.
2 - Parents should not shout instructions or criticism their children.
3 - Parents should not make derogatory comments team players otherwise or other parents or referees or managers.
4 - Parents should not infer tasks coach their children. Would gladly give their children the responsibility of the coach during the game.
On the other hand, coaches should willingly respond to the concerns of parents about their children.
What every parent wants or should want of a child is able to offer a healthy and constructive education; sport offers this type of education, but would choose the wrong strategy for education sports required. The child should have the right to choose not to participate in sport. Of course, encouraging (without blackmail or intimidation) is the most effective strategy.
coaches' job is to provide objective information about the basics of the sport, and when I say I mean objective to avoid the typical situation "Sell the bike," ie, raising expectations too high.
is known that many parents regard their children as an extension of themselves, guiding them to what they had wanted but they could not define what goals should be achieved (goals that they had hoped to achieve), carrying on the backs of their children a responsibility that can interfere seriously in athletic performance.
Parents should recognize the right of every young person has to develop their athletic potential in an atmosphere that emphasizes participation, personal development and fun. What should be
parental responsibilities?
1 - Can parents give their children? This requires putting the boy / a coach completely in charge and trust that lead their sports experience, for it must accept the authority of the coach and the fact that he can win the admiration of the boy, before the father exclusive.
2 - Can parents admit their limitations? Parents should be reassured that the appropriate response to a mistake is an honest declaration. Should not hesitate to discuss the topic openly with your child.
3 - Can parents accept their child's triumphs? That sounds simple, but not always. Some parents do not, but in reality can be more competitive with their sons. When a guy stands in the competition may be a tendency to highlight minor errors or describe how there were others who did better.
4 - Can parents accept their children's frustrations? OK the frustrations of a young witness may mean how to lose a match, while others win, or not display confused, embarrassed or angry when your ten year old son cries after the defeat. In these cases where parents can pour positivity to the defeats.
5 - Can parents show self-control to their children? Parents should be aware that models are for their children. The coach may have difficulty teaching self-control to teach the kids if a parent loses control during a game.
6 - Can parents spend some time with your child? Some parents are so extremely busy that they become a problem as they want and are interested in encouraging their children. They should never promise more time than can be granted. Ideally in such cases is that the father was interested in asking him about the development of training and try to go to some party.
7 - Can parents allow their children to make their own decisions? Sport can be an introduction constitutes the main process of emancipation. You can not mold their children, but rather to provide guidance and advice to the intentions of the boy, always within reasonable limits.
The biggest problems arise during the competition where you can sometimes lose his composure good. Let's see some rules that can help keep such composure
1 - Parents should remain in the spectator areas during the competition, to be seated.
2 - Parents should not shout instructions or criticism their children.
3 - Parents should not make derogatory comments team players otherwise or other parents or referees or managers.
4 - Parents should not infer tasks coach their children. Would gladly give their children the responsibility of the coach during the game.
On the other hand, coaches should willingly respond to the concerns of parents about their children.
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